We make much wiser and more well-informed decisions when we seek out a variety of opinions from people we trust and respect.
Command - Courage to Speak
People with the Command StrengthFinder talent theme have courage to speak, especially in times of crisis or conflict.They have a strong charismatic presence.
Understanding the Command Strength
Command is the least frequent strength at 34 of all StrengthsFinder themes worldwide. It can be easily misunderstood because it is so rare in individuals.
Command is most likely paired with Strategic at .35% and least likely paired with Developer and Discipline at .01%.
Command can take control of a situation and make decisions, especially in crisis or conflict. They thrive with clarity and honesty and hate unresolved conflict. They prefer to expose conflict so it can be dealt with quickly.
Other words to describe Command are: Persuasive, Assertive, Direct, Decisive, take charge.
Command is part of the Influencing domain of leadership. My mentor called Command a dynamite theme. It’s a powerful theme that can blast mountains and road blocks to open up the highway. Raw Command can be explosive causing harm and intimidation if not used appropriately in the board room.
Refined Command Strength
My ancestor Lieutenant Presley Neville O’Bannon was the first to raise the American flag over foreign soil at the battle of Derne on the shores of Tripoli, on April 27th, 1805.
He led a group of men across the desert to overcome Barbary Coast pirates who were holding 180 American seaman for ransom. For his heroic leadership he was honored with the Mameluke sword now called the Marine sword. After serving in the Marines he then served in the Kentucky State Legislature.
Notice the courage to speak and lead in crisis and conflict. Notice the strong presence he not only used to serve in the Marine Corp but also for his country.
Today he is remembered by the words “to the shores of Tripoli” being a part of the Marine Corps Official Song.
A simple Google of his name will lead you to a fascinating study of a man with the Command strength that was lived with courage to lead.
Raw Command Strength
When Command strength is under developed, immature, or speeding it can be seen as bossy, controlling, intimidating, strong – willed, even a bully.
Command is my #4 strength. I’ve had to learn to soften my Command with my #2 Individualization strength.
Command can get into a “telling mode” and Individualization keeps me into an “asking” mode.
Contrasting Command
Empathy seeks emotional connection; Command seeks emotional clarity.
Harmony enjoys consensus and agreement; Command exposes conflict and disagreement.
Developer is patient with little progress; Command is pushing for powerful persuasion.
The Power of Command is to silence the critic and ignite personal power. The Joy of Command is seeing others have confidence to speak and act boldly. The Beauty of Command is the courageous presence in emergencies. The Hope of Command is to break bottlenecks and heal wounds.
Action Items for Command
Take the lead to resolve conflicts.
Be the voice and powerful advocate for an organization that you feel passion for.
Speak up and voice the opinions of those who are
Get certified in dispute mediation.
Leverage other strengths to soften your Command.
Scriptures Demonstrating Command
Proverbs 27:5-6 Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
Galatians 2:14 (Paul said) When I saw that they were not acting in line with the truth of the gospel, I said to Peter in front of them all, …
Judges 4:4-9 (Story of how the prophetess Deborah led the army into battle)
Ephesians 4:25-27 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin.” Do not let the sun go down while you are angry and do ot give the devil a foothold.
Discovery Questions for Command
Who and what organization needs your courage?
When have you been a powerful voice and advocate?
Where would you like to be in charge?
How do you use Command to influence others?
Who and what strengths would be a complementary partner for you?
About the author: Brent O’Bannon coaches individuals, teams, and organizations as a PCC and the 1st GALLUP Certified Strengths Coach in the world. He is an Amazon #1 Best Selling Author. Learn more at brentobannon.com & strengthschampion.com
Godly Exit Strategy | Dan Lucas
Welcome back to Season 1, Episode 11 of the Convene Podcast. Dan Lucas from CVG Advisors joins us this week to talk with us about exit planning strategies with a biblical perspective and how CVG Advisors can help.
CVG Advisors offer sound strategic advice throughout the entire business lifecycle – from helping you to develop a business transition plan, identify viable exit options, get you “sale-ready”, evaluate strategic alternatives and act as your trusted financial advisor throughout a transaction.
They take the time to understand your business, including your financial profile and key value drivers, so that we are well-positioned to advise you on how to best maximize and protect the value of your business.
CVG Advisors not only help you navigate the strategic, operational, financial and compliance risks in pursuit of successful company performance but they also focus on helping you to build sustainable value in your business in order to close the gap between where you are today and where you want to be in the future.
Follow as I Follow
One beautiful aspect of this digital age is the capacity to scan in old documents and free up precious bookshelf space. My bookshelves once held massive black notebooks, full of more than 30 years of preaching manuscripts. I’ve slowly been scanning them in, giving me the opportunity to re-read some awful as well as some beautifully tender stuff, in addition to gaining board footage for boxed up books I had not found room for previously.
Letting Go Is A Process
Funerals are always times I reflect on life, particularly the time that has flown by. Eulogies are told and memories of days-gone-by with lifelong family and friends run through my mind. It’s a time when I realize the inescapable finiteness of my human existence. I’m in one of those “seasons of funerals” that tend to come, more often, as I grow older. Besides the corpus in the casket, many of the mourners are aging and/or terminally ill or have someone dear to them in those situations. The reality of mortality weighs heavy in the church. I believe it’s how God prepares us for our own ending—through the experience of the death of others.
Those are moments when everyone in the room deals with the question: “Do I really believe what I say I believe—that I will be swept into the arms of the Lord when I, too, face that threshold?” It’s difficult to let go of who we know and love even though we believe in the eternal presence of God. The pastor’s role as spiritual leader is to remind us of that truth.
If you pause to think, our lives are filled with moments of dying and grieving, and those experiences train our spirit to accept death and move through it to resurrection. It’s the letting go of the familiar--what we know and love—what we can see and touch—with the assurance of a better outcome.
So, it is with our businesses. What we know and love can be projects, employees, processes, assets, or clients that we well know are beyond their useful life. Yet we protest, we cling to memories of vitality, and refuse to let things go.
In his excellent book, “Necessary Endings,” Dr. Henry Cloud explains that endings are necessary for growth—some things die and some must be “killed.” He distinguishes between real and false hope; false hope is when more effort will not bring about different results.
As a Christian business owner, you are the spiritual leader and steward of the company whose role is to navigate through these decisions of life and death to ensure the legacy of the organization.
At Convene, we help by bringing perspective, wise counsel, and encouragement around those decisions—the decisions that can be so hard to let go, even though we know there’s a better place on the other side.